Since I was a stay at home mom this summer, I was determined to potty train my 2.5 year old son before I went back to work. I knew that it was going to be a challenge since Jason has my fire. He will only do something if he wants to do it, when he wants to do it.
I determined that I would try some sort of variation of potty training boot camp. I set my expectations low and hoped for the best. I figured if he didn't get the hang of it, I would just try again once we got back home. There is a lot of info out there but I didn't want to buy a book or try only one thing. I looked at a number of options and decided what I thought would work best for my determined little boy.
Jason was showing signs that he was ready to be potty trained. He was starting to hate dirty diapers, though he was not at all excited about sitting on the potty. He also had dry diapers after napping or sleeping all night.
We had purchased a small kiddie potty months ago, but he preferred to push it around our house and take it apart rather than sit on it. Since we were overseas for the summer, I was not about to buy another one or a kiddie toilet seat. It would be one more thing to bring home. All of our training was done using normal toilets, which I think helped a lot. I dedicated a week staying at home and not doing any errands so he could get used to a routine of using the potty.
I also offered him incentives. I made a sticker racetrack. Every time he went #1, he got one sticker. When he did #2, he got two stickers. He also got a small piece of candy when he went on the potty. I alternated between chocolate and fruit chews so he wouldn't be too sugared up.
Lastly, I decided on putting him right away into underpants. I didn't want him to be confused with using pull-ups since they are so much like diapers. I bought him some Toy Story and Thomas underpants before we left. My theory was that he wouldn't want to get them too dirty if they were some of his favorite characters.
Day 1 started out with him wearing loose shorts and no diaper. From when he got up and every twenty minutes, I tried to bring him to the potty to have him try to go. There was a number of accidents and lots of crying about not wanting to go. He did go a few times that day. He hated the feeling of accidents and having to get cleaned up. By the end of the day, he was wearing underpants. I was super proud!
The next couple of days got better and better. Jason was getting the hang of going #1 on the potty and the number of those types of accidents were decreasing. He was still afraid of going #2. Anytime he actually did it without having an accident he was showered with praise because it was a big deal (a lot less clean up for Mommy :)). I was still taking him to the potty on a schedule but I was increasing the time in between visits. He was doing awesome!!! Jason finished his sticker racetrack in four days! He was allowed to choose a small toy for doing so well.
That weekend we took him out hiking. Probably not the best decision on our part while we were trying to potty train him. We put him in a diaper and tried to take him to the bathroom now and then but he wanted nothing to do with it. Needless to say we ended up with a bit of a regression there. I decided to be more diligent when we went out and that I would invest in some pull-ups for outings. They were more similar to underwear than diapers leading to less confusion and more cooperation.
The second and third weeks things just continued to improve. He decided that he had his "favorite potty"in the house and that made things more comfortable for him to do his business. I created two more sticker charts in order to keep the incentives going for him. I also made the charts larger each time in order to make him work harder to finish. Since he finished the third chart, he will get a "big dinosaur present" when we get back home.
By the end of the third week, the accidents stopped. He wears underpants full-time at home. He tells us when he has to go and agrees to go when he is away from home. He still wears pull-ups when we go out in case of an accident. He has only had one since that first week. He wears a diaper when he goes down for naps/bedtime simply because we don't want him to have an accident on a bed that isn't ours. He has never had an accident during the entire time he was potty training.
I have to say that repetition and understanding have definitely been the key to this whole process. I am actually surprised that he was pretty much trained after the second week. The only thing that has been a challenge is making sure that we remember to ask him to go when we are out. Usually he is too into what he is doing to take time to stop on his own. He is getting better about not being upset when we want him to go try to go.
This methodology definitely worked for us but may not work for all kids. You as a parent need to know what triggers would work best for your child to learn. If your child is anything like mine, you should try what we did. Just be prepared to clean up lots of accidents, be patient and it will happen.
Last weekend we took Jason to the Devon Railway Centre in Bickleigh. I have to admit that we got lost going there. We saw a lot of the English countryside that we weren't planning on seeing. Ended up on some scary, narrow roads where we were thankful that no cars were coming the other way since there was nowhere to pullover or turn around for miles...
Jason LOVED the railway centre and he was at the perfect age to enjoy it! There was four to five old passenger cars that were converted into areas where model train systems could be displayed. The cases were equipped with push button response so the kids could make the trains start on their demand. Jason was so excited! Another three passenger cars were converted into a play center with wooden train sets, a play sand area and a huge ball pit. Jason of course loved the trains. He attempted the ball pit but once he found out he couldn't wear his shoes, he gave up on it.
There were two rails to ride there. There was a normal train ride and a miniature railway. Unlimited train rides were included in the admission. I think that we all enjoyed the miniature ride the best since it rode over to the gnome village. The "Gnomehenge" reminded us of Spinal Tap :)
Jason even got to drive his own train. He was in heaven! We only let him do it once, otherwise we would have dropped a ton of money on it.
Here is the website to the Devon Railway Centre: http://www.devonrailwaycentre.co.uk/
From there, we drove over to Lyme Regis which is known for its fossils from the Early Jurassic period. We walked down to the Black Ven part of the beach where the shale cliffs were to search for "dinosaur bones." We found some that were too big to take home but were pretty cool to see.
We did find a few fossils to take home with us. One of them looks like an Ammonite. Dave is going to try to break away some of the shale so we can see it more. It was a bit difficult for us to really search since I was carrying the stroller and our backpack while Dave carried Jason. Dave is going to try to go back after we leave to head further out and look in more detail. Jason liked looking for "dinosaurs" though he was hoping we were going to find a T-Rex. Maybe next time...
This weekend we took Jason to the National Marine Aquarium in Plymouth. Of course, he was obsessed with seeing the sharks. Between sharks and dinosaurs, I think it is a tie for what he likes best.
Being in Plymouth, we also were at the waterfront where the Mayflower left for America.
On Sunday, we went to look at some Celtic and Roman ruins near a town called Minions. Similar to when we went to the Dartmoor, Jason ran around for about 15-20 minutes and then insisted on Dave carrying him the rest of the way.
We stopped a great local pub on the way back to Tavistock. They had amazing Sunday roasts of any kind of meat you wanted and a ton of veggies and gravy. Yummy!
When we got back, I drove to the store by myself to pick up a few items. It's only a few minute drive, but hey it was something. Driving on the opposite side of the road really makes you pay attention so much more. There are so many roundabouts here, you really need to make sure you follow everything. I think that it will still be a while before I drive down to Plymouth alone. It took both Dave, myself and the GPS to find our way around.
Tomorrow I am starting Potty Training Boot Camp for Jason. I have to admit I am nervous but he's ready. Maybe he'll surprise me but I think I am in for a fight...
The weekend started with us finding out that we will have the flat to ourselves the entire time Jason and I are here due to some delays on the project. That actually works out for the best since Jason is definitely difficult sometimes as most two-year-olds are.
Dave and I decided to spend Friday night staying up finishing up Season Four of Dexter. Of course Season Five will be out when I get home but I will have to wait for Dave to come home to watch it...
Our weekend was pretty lo-key. On Sunday, we decided to explore the Dartmoor and look at some Celtic ruins. The energy was amazing and there are so many things to see. Plus being in the Dartmoor, we were surrounded by the free range sheep, cows and horses. We actually hiked by a bunch of rams. Jason loved it because he was just able to run. However, that meant he was tuckered out by the time we were done hiking to the first site.
I also had my first experience driving on the left hand side of the road. It is interesting trying to re-train your way of thinking. I think I was getting the hang of it. I definitely need more practice, like driving to places I'm familiar with. I don't think I could drive and try to listen to the GPS at the same time right now :)
After taking a week of rest, I am back to scheduling my day again. I need that structure if I want to reach my goals in more ways than one. Look out...I'm recharged and back on my game!
As much as I love emailing and social networking, I feel repetitive sometimes when I am chatting with everyone. I figured I would put most of the day to day antics in my blog so emails don't get long and drawn out :)
Day 4 in England. I think that the weather is getting to me because it changes so much. For the most part, it has been sunny most of the week. However, the temperature keeps changing. So it is totally killing my sinuses. I swore I brought my allergy meds but I can't seem to find them anywhere. Hmm, I may have to steal some of the claritin I brought over for Dave. Migraines two days in a row are no fun. I swear we have no ibuprofen in this house either, which go figure since Dave took it all the time at home. Tylenol does NOTHING for migraines... Still it's nice to be on an extended vacation :)
I have yet to establish a routine. I need to start some structure again. Of course I mention this last night and then I slept in again. Maybe tomorrow. I think I really under estimated how amped up I was before coming here.
Jason and I ventured to the local grocery store today. I was really hoping we weren't going to get lost because to tell you the truth, I don't even know the address of our flat. I only know the unit number and the general vacinity lol. It's a cute store, a tad bit pricey but not too bad. The bonus is that we are still in an English speaking country. I always had a harder time getting my point across when I was looking for something in Germany.
Tonight is pub night and yes we will have a baby in a bar. We are just stopping to meet everyone though before we go have dinner. I wanted to take a pic of J there but I think it may be in poor taste and may get me in trouble :)
I've been trying to find something to do for the weekend but I think we may just stay local and go hiking around the moor. Maybe go check out the ruins and the free range animals. Speaking of free range animals for you carnivores out there, the meat here is delicious. Wow, way better than at home...just sayin'.
I will try to post some pictures from time to time but I am unsure about what our quota for the month. Don't want to get on the government's bad side...
I will add to the photo project that I started for Dave. Actually, maybe I will work on that now while Jason is still sleeping for a bit. I will post the link in a separate post.
